I think it is very normal to compare, but this is what you are this pregnancy, does'nt mean you will be the same in the next. I have put on too much weight and am quite big, just means I wil have more to lose after the baby, I have a friend who is tiny, she has had three boys and with all her pregnancies she has been able to wear regular clothes until the end and has average size babes. Who knows!!! As long as you and your baby are healthy does'nt matter. Hot flushes are just hormonal at the end I will break out in a sweat, soooo embrassing. But normal.........