One of my closest girlfriends has just announced her pregnancy She already has 2 kids, and she doesn't feel there's any point to having a baby shower. Just this morning I was thinking about throwing her a surprise blessingway type thing, except we'd all go away for a night or two instead of just being a day.

The questions are:

At what point does pregnancy become more uncomfortable than anything? I don't want her to be uncomfortable the whole time she's there, so I'm trying to figure out when I should plan it for.

Do you think it would be a good idea? Most of the other girls all have kids as well, so I thought they might enjoy getting away and just being able to focus on her, even if it's only for 1 night.

Would YOU go if you were invited to it?

TIA ladies