I can see his point - it is kind of crazy that there is a little person inside of us I love thinking like that personally its amazing really.
I would love for y DH to be able to feel this baby moving but everytime I grab his hand she stops moving
I guess guys do have a different perspective though afterall they are "outside" of the pregnancy iykwim. As a woman we get to experience every little thing and guys really can only become, I guess, attached to the pregnancy once it becomes real for them i.e when they can see and feel the baby moving.

I wouldn't be too concerned about his comments especially if he is a first timer, it does feel weird and strange when you feel the baby from the outside.

I always giggle remembering the scene from Aliens especially when you see baby moving under the skin - its so cool!!!!