There are heaps of nice, non-nappy bag looking nappy bags around. To begin with, I just used an old satchel style bag, that had heaps of pockets, but I got a lovely Petunia Pickle Bottom nappy bag for xmas - its a lot smaller than the one I used to use, so I had to streamline what I took out - in doing that, I found I used to take lots of stuff that I never needed. I'm looking around for a nice bigger one, that's good for a toddler and baby - I've seen an OiOi one that I like so just have to ask nicely and see if Santa is good to me