im very confused, i am 26 i have three children 8, 5 and 1 and half, from a previous relationship that i exited because of alcohol abuse and violence, which i was on the recieving end... My new b/f, 21 has been with us for 1 year we have just discovered we are 6 weeks pregnant.. I work part time and love and care for my kids and i am a loving and supportive partner 2 him.. but he smokes dope, he knows how i feel and says he will stop but lies and hides it, im smart i see..i thought that it had ceased but i think now im pregnant hes got me... and that its shut me up... wot do i do????? ive tried for months to get him help, he dosent want it, and im so stressed that something that means so much to me he wont respect? help me...