i would like to say thanx 4 every1 who gave me supportxoxo i love him but not the drugs, ive been supportive in attempts to detox, but he goes back on his promises then tries to sneek around xcpt im not silly i know him so well i find the stuff, bong, dope everytime... in my kithchen once, with the mix bowl n bong in hand... he swore over my daughters head he wasent and out in the shed i found it all.... no respect for me or my kids or my belief system.. sometimes to love isnt enough, that is why i am going to finish the relationship, as much as it hurts... i know ive exausted every avenue it was up 2 him and he just dosent want this... hugs not drugs, no amount of yelling, reasoning, support or tears will make him see reason, when i look into his blue eyes now glazed over with this terrible bloodshot redness i feel resentment, and loss... you cant make someone do anything , "lead a horse to water , but you cant make it drink.." thanx ur all gorjus best wishes ....