"Oh - we can't wait to come and see the new baby!"

Umm... Hello.... what about mum who gave birth to this new baby or the DH/DP that had to endure the pregnancy also or the siblings who have to adjust to a new family member. Do they not matter???

I'm sure they do and i'm sure there is no malious (sp) meant by these comments but it frustrates me to no end.

There is more people involved in this that just the "new baby" !