i could never bring myself to do it in public because i felt i could be shoving it into some poor woman's face who has been TTC for ages or worst has m/c ... so yep i just couldn't go there but that's just how i am ... needless to say a so-called friend did it to myself and my DP when she very well knew we had TTC for over 3years, yep she would do it seriously at every given moment to the point my DP said do we have to visit them anymore i can't stand it

i loved rubbing my pregnant belly first thing in the morning in the shower, like PZ said it was my way of connecting with bub and i would sing a little song to her too