Why not Go ahead and have one, nothing wrong with wanting to have a day with all your friends to celebrate the upcoming arrival of bubba

I am going to go out for high tea, probably do it quite early though, as it will be a great chance to catch up with some friends I haven't seen for a while, but planning on making mine no presents please as I don't think there is anything I need, and the only purchases I am planning is a Glider Chair, a few more nappies which MIL wants to buy and hire of a capsule And there is nothing against anyone who wants one and doesn't say no presents, I just don't want to be given a heap of things that we don't need