Hey Jen,

Establishing breastfeeding isn't always easy I know. I couldn't do it with my son either as he refused to suck.

What happened with your second child is quite normal though. What you were doing was correct because the baby needs to feed a lot when they are just starting out. That gets your supply going and keeps it going. Later on, the feeds will space a bit more but that initial time is one of establishment.

If you are keen to b/f this baby, think about joining the ABA or contacting a lactation consultant before you go into hospital. They might be able to give you some help and advice about feeding which will help you.

In terms of it being hereditary, I don't think that is the case. But I know that my mother had a similar experience with me as I had with my son. She was concerned that that meant she would have trouble breastfeeding other children but this wasn't the case. Her second and third babies took to the breast right off with no problems and she breastfed both for 12 months each.

Good luck!

Mel