all through my preg with ds i was continually told that he was small for weight. at about 38wks they actually took us on a tour of the neo natal unit and showed us small babies and said that he would be on oxygen for two days. needless to say i was racked with guilt over what i had done wrong to cause this, i didn't drink,smoke etc etc. delivery day arrived two weeks later and ds was born weighing 3.9kg (it's think thats about eight pounds). they even had the audascity to turn around and tell me that ds had gained over four pounds in the week since they're last scan and that it was my fault.