Taz with your brother and his family coming back don't forget you are pg and that is a good reason to me for being fat. I say it to DH all the time. Not everyone is able to get rid of the extra weight in between having kids i never did and i have said after this one it's my time. I also think it's what's on the inside that is important not what someone looks like.

You know I'm not far from you and once we both have had our little ones how about joining the gym together and they do have a creche for the little ones. Then that way to fat frumps can do it toghether.