Pregpan- If I liked my ILs I would ask for help.
hahaha that sounds like me!!! When my MIL offers her help, I usually say no anyway...her idea of "helping" me is telling me that I get dizzy because I have GD (which I don't) and that my baby most likely has ADD because he is always extremely active!!!! No thanks...I'll risk the "umbilical cord strangling my baby" MYTH and do it myself hahaha