Oh God, BD'ing is the last thing on my mind and I think it actually makes me feel a bit sick thinking about it. DH is very disappointed because we decided to TTC while I was having my last period (9 May) and we only had sex once and I got pregnant. He was looking forward to at least about 6 months of doing it like rabbits like last time. Since the night I BD'd and got pregnant we have only done it once because I have felt pretty horrible and not in the mood.

Last time I think we only BD'd 3 or 4 times in the 1st tri but in the 2nd and 3rd I was really horny! I was having the best erotic dreams and even fantasicing about people I would see in the street or on the train, I was an animal (but then I would catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror and think, Oh my God is that me!! I was huge!! I turned myself off!).

Your DH will just have to learn to please himself or just wait until you feel like it again. I think it is totally normal in the 1st tri!

Jorja