its a tough call hun, we found out with DD1 and didn't have a choice with DD2 due to the number of scans we had. If/When we decide to go again I am unsure if we will find out before bub is born .... you get a surprise either way so bottom line is how soon do you want the surprise
Well scan is on Tuesday and Im still not 100%.. But Im thinking 20 weeks went by so fast that another 20 wont be too bad.. DH has decided he doesnt want to find out.. So I think we wont be finding out on Tuesday..
Thank you for all your tips and advise... I still could change my mind.. lol
We found out with all our pregnancies, we figure it doesnt ruin the surprise coz you dont know what she looks like... Unless of course you get the 4d scan.
I love knowing what we are expecting, but after my 3rd DS ppl were starting to get on my nerves with 'oh another boy'.... Aslong as bubs is happy and healthy we didnt care, we wanted 4 babies, (together DD from a previous) so if we ended up with 4 boys it wouldnt of mattered.
congratulations of your little BOY blessing I was desperate to find out gender! I was sooooo excited and than the scan was a nightmare (long story) at the time I think I drove BB mad with all of my excitement and than all of my disapointment at the horrible lady we had do the scan on the day. Anyway I think next time around we will go into the scan with an attitude of "if we can see gender than we see gender, if we don't than it will be a surprise" KWIM? that way we can avoid such a HUGE let down if things don't go to plan. That's just my experiance anyway.
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