some people will want to know, others won't (we have at least a couple of friends that have threatened physical violence if we spill!!)

our intention is to share with those that we told early about our pg - those that we can trust to keep it to themselves, but to have people to share with kwim? a couple of people that knew early on won't have a chance of finding out though - they couldn't keep their trap shut! we're doing the same nurery either way, so gender specific clothes is all we have to hide.. and given that so many of our friends have recently had bubbas or will be having bubbas just before us, if we're seen out shopping, we have excuses!