we told. I was desperate to know and my two DD's were too. and i couldnt expect them to keep it quiet for so long. and now that we know we refer to the baby as him/he so it would have been too hard to keep it quiet.

BUT we are keeping the name quiet... so that way at least there is some news to tell people when he arrives. We are also keeping quiet about the fact that he will be here earlier than anyone expects