I understand completely Dasharity. If I was going to be having girl number three then I wanted to adjust to that idea before she arrived. Its not that i wouldnt love her but I think I would have needed time to grieve that fact that I would never have a son (this is definately our last child).... I didnt want to be going through that process of grieving when I should have been bonding with my new little girl.
but..... its a boy, so its not an issue now. And the boy clothes are pressies are rolling in already.
We found out the sex and had actually chosen names before finding out so everyone knew name and sex from 19 weeks. It was awesome getting to know the little person inside me and knowing his name and talking to him. His name is a little unusual and some people don't like it. By telling everyone the name beforehand they had time to get used to it and now noone thinks anything of it - it is just his name. But each to their own!
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