I understand completely Dasharity. If I was going to be having girl number three then I wanted to adjust to that idea before she arrived. Its not that i wouldnt love her but I think I would have needed time to grieve that fact that I would never have a son (this is definately our last child).... I didnt want to be going through that process of grieving when I should have been bonding with my new little girl.

but..... its a boy, so its not an issue now. And the boy clothes are pressies are rolling in already.