well you guys are much cleverer than me....we were told definitely a boy at both scans (12 and 19 weeks) and they said - see, here is the penis, but i couldnt see it for the life of me! mind you, at another point, i was looking at what i thought was the head and the guy told me it was actually the stomach. i could barely recognise what was baby and what was me! my visual spatial skills are obviously crap!