Mmmm..the IL's, DH told his mum who trout mouthed to the rest of the family and who ever she looked at in the street.
My parents, my DH told my dad then told me a couple of weeks later he had told dad. My DD called my mum to tell her, but I suspect she already knew if my dad did.
Telling my DH... I tested a couple of days before our FS said I could after our 1st IVF cycle. Got a faint BFP, but hadn't used FMU. I was so excited anyway, that I got DD's car seat out of hiding and put it in the car to see how it would fit, I then put the +ve HPT in the seat. When we woke up I took him downstairs, stood him beside the car and told him I had a present for him. He couldn't see the carseat, so I opened the door to show him. He said "Oh great it fits" then leaned over to see how it was sitting in the seat and saw the HPT. He picked it up and asked me if it meant what he thought it did, and then asked me if it was actually mine! He gave me a huge cuddle and we were both shaking.

DH told DD when he was keeping her distracted in the shops while I was playing santa.

Nic