how do you really feel about DTD in early pg ?

[barney]

so thats my question
i know its completly safe for most of us but i still get scared a bit is this normal ? i still do it but not as often ,i think im being silly and freaking my self out .
gee ive had 4 kids before and it never worried me wasnt a thought .
i think its just because this bubby is ivf,took us sooo long to get and its been 10 years since ive been pregnant so ive forgotten sex is normal.
oh smithy your a worry girl
and poor dh is just as scared to be honest,he really is.he wants it, but doesnt... freaks him out ,he said he doesnt want to break anything.

[Amaunet]

My poor DH didn't get anywhere NEAR me in the first tri. I was just too scared and he (being a sweetheart) didn't push the issue.

I def understand your fear

[mrsmac]

OMG how did I miss this pg????????? I am so sorry Smithy.

[tk1999]

I was scared and we certainly didn't DTD as much in the first trimester as we had pre pg, I had a few bleeds (2 x old blood and 1 x new blood) and that made us even more apprehensive... the bleeds didn't happen after DTD.

But in hindsight we probably DTD more in the first trimester than we did the second trimester

I went through a time when I craved DTD but DP was scared but wouldn't say it upfront... and then there was a time when DP was really up for it and I was busy being ill

[onthefly]

Wow - congratulations!
Maybe just take it slow and see how you go

[boobaloo]

this may be tmi, but with ds, i couldn't get enough sex, especially in the 1st trimester! so we dtd all the time. with dd, the thought of it made me sick. so i think that if you're comfortable with it, and not experiencing any pain etc, you should go for it!

congrats on the belly!

[Salsa]

I didnt want to. I had bleeding with my pregnancies too, so I guess thats a put off. I only feel good to do it after the 3mth mark.

[barney]

aww thank you girls,
well for now were going to have a dtd break and were both good with that gee we have the rest of our lives to get funky with it and only one chance at having this baby so all sex is on hold at least till i finish the first tri.
thank you for all you honest answers i really felt stupid .

[Heaven]

I was the same! No sex in the first tri for me!