how do you really feel about DTD in early pg ?

[Salsa]

I didnt want to. I had bleeding with my pregnancies too, so I guess thats a put off. I only feel good to do it after the 3mth mark.

[barney]

aww thank you girls,
well for now were going to have a dtd break and were both good with that gee we have the rest of our lives to get funky with it and only one chance at having this baby so all sex is on hold at least till i finish the first tri.
thank you for all you honest answers i really felt stupid .

[Heaven]

I was the same! No sex in the first tri for me!

[Rommy'sMummy]

No sex here either. Had probls getting this baby and had pre-term issues with previous one so a bit freaked out. To be honest I still get the urge but DH is too scared. We DTD perhaps three times and he couldnt make it over the line (if you know what I mean) he was too freaked out.

A shame but not worth the worry for us.

Congrats on your pg!!

[Hummingbird]

I'm pregnant with my first and my DH (bless him) has been too scared, he doesn't want to hurt the baby or cause a MC. I have explained that it's OK and the books say that the baby likes the movement etc, but if one of you if tense about it it's not going to be fun so I haven't pushed it.

We had our scan last week and all is looking good so I am hoping to make up for the lost time, lol, esp as I am feeling better and staying up later than 8pm!!

[earth_99]

My GP said no DTD - because I had some bleeding (for 4-5 weeks off and on). When I went to my OB at 12 weeks, he asked when the last bleed was, and it hadn't been for a few weeks, so then he said it was fine to DTD again. I was too sick and we didn't end up doing much for a few months after that :-)

I say just go with what you're comfortable with.

[Nelle]

As you say, you have your whole lives ahead of you. 1st trimester with first baby I freaked out, but apparently the cervix can bleed a little easily (not a problem), which sex can cause. So to bleed after sex is normal, but for me, I just preferred not to have the niggling worry afterwards. Once I was sure the pregnancy was a sticker, I would relax somewhat.

[barney]

thank you all very much,ive still been thinking about it and the more i do i say no more sex im to scared
and nell its so true ok weve had the sex but now im still worrying if the baby is ok or if ill start bleeding oh the worries but now even having spoken to dh i feel so much better and relaxed its like now i know i dont really have to give it to dh cause his not keen on it as well and before i would even get a bit ****ty knowing maybe i should do the deed with dh and didnt really want to but would have as a favour IYKWIM
so i just feel better knowing that me and dh are on the same page the more my pg goes on i think ill be fine ,but honestly thanks girls for being so honest i thought i was a sex looser