How many times have you been pregnant? *Sensitive topic*

**Bern** · October 9th, 2011, 07:13 AM

ive been pregnant 4 times and have 2 living children.

**MummyOfTerrors** · November 16th, 2011, 09:47 PM

ive been extremely blessed with 3 pregnancy and 3 beautiful children

**Calluna** · November 16th, 2011, 10:11 PM

hopefully this doesn't offend anyone. If it does I'm sincerely sorry.

1 live baby,
1 possible early loss while TTC DS - I'll never know for sure as it didn't occur to me until after DS was born, that may have been what it was.

how do you grieve someone you're not sure existed? I feel like I don't have the right, or that I have the ability to grieve it. I didn't have hopes for it, I didn't bond with it. I didn't know s/he may have existed until DS was 6 months old.
How does someone move past something like that? I feel like I'm stuck in limbo.

**ellasmummy** · November 16th, 2011, 10:24 PM

3 pregnancies, 1 MC at 9 weeks and 2 little princesses

**Chrispe** · November 16th, 2011, 11:39 PM

hopefully this doesn't offend anyone. If it does I'm sincerely sorry.

1 live baby,
1 possible early loss while TTC DS - I'll never know for sure as it didn't occur to me until after DS was born, that may have been what it was.

how do you grieve someone you're not sure existed? I feel like I don't have the right, or that I have the ability to grieve it. I didn't have hopes for it, I didn't bond with it. I didn't know s/he may have existed until DS was 6 months old.
How does someone move past something like that? I feel like I'm stuck in limbo.

I understand how you feel. You have the right to grieve, if you want to. I sometimes ask the universe "why?" just to get in off my chest. And other times when the subject comes up I pick up my DS2 & give him the biggest hug, & just let myself be thankful for him (we nearly lost him at birth, spontaneous labour at 33weeks) so maybe when you don't know how to feel about that pos early mc cuddle you little guy & tell him how much your glad he's here.

Sometimes it's the only thing that keeps me from breaking down.

I hope this helps?

**LimeSlice** · November 17th, 2011, 12:58 AM

3 pregnancies, 4 babies, 2 live births. Miscarried twins at 9wks.

**Bronzdbebe** · November 17th, 2011, 05:44 AM

I have been pregnant twice. The first pregnancy resulting in the birth of charming Master Z, The second one is still in progress, I'm almost 25 weeks...with my fingers tightly crossed for the safe arrival of DS2. xx

**~*Niadalla*~** · November 18th, 2011, 06:15 PM

4 pregnancies

#1 mc at 8 weeks.
#2 DS born healthy
#3 mc at 5 weeks
#4 DD born healthy.

**LionsandBears** · November 18th, 2011, 07:42 PM

I've only just logged back in after my last post/ meltdown. I know it was off topic & I apologise if that has offended anyone. I was honestly not having a go at anyone. Tegam was not having a go at me at all, in any post. We PM'd each other about it before I logged off. I should have clarified that in here before last logging off.

My opinion is my own and is based on my own experience. It does not necessarily reflect the opinions or experiences of other bereaved parents though I do know some for whom it is similar.

Jennjayen -

I am so sorry for your loss. We never "get over" it. I'm sorry you haven't had more support in your grief.

Go gently all

**trishalishous** · November 18th, 2011, 08:13 PM

ive had 2 pregnancies, but one early miscarriage, and one twin in heaven, one twin here on earth
ttc our next one

**damprye** · November 22nd, 2011, 11:25 PM

4 confirmed pregnancies. I have two beautiful earthside baby boys <3

**purplepixie1978** · February 1st, 2012, 07:27 PM

Two pregnancies - one DD and one baking. There has been a lot of infant mortality in my family due to genetic issues so I know very well how lucky I am.