Whoa... I think her OB is *ahem* just a little rude & out of line there!

I have gained 20kg with each of mine, including this one, no matter what I did really (although I didn't try & keep it off either iykwim)

every woman is different.. I would expect an OB to know this??!!

My GP weighs me each visit, has no comment, the hospital mids/ drs never weigh me. I figure they can see what kind of gain I have had & where it is going.

FWIW I know of very very few women who gain that little over their PGs.