Just sending you some more hugs, i have been thinking about you since i first read your post!!! I really hope that that little bit of hope you are clinging to turns out your way. And if it doesnt i pray that you have the strength and support to come to terms with the feelings you are having. I cant imagine how hard this must be for you!!!
nothing else i can say realy....just more hugs and let your self be sad and dont feel bad about those feelings!!!! Hugs to you.xx
I hope you get some sort of closure with your next scan..if they are wrong and you are in fact having a girl then you can go on as you had planned.
If you are carrying a little boy you can grieve for what you thought you had and plan and get excited for the precious little man your are carrying to make up your basket ball team.
Sorry ladies, I forgot about this thread. I updated the G/D one but not this one.
I had another 3D scan done and the ladies were so wonderful. They knew the situation and really did try to give me the 100% I needed but unfortunately a leg was in the way.
In 2D they were still adamant it was a girl. There was absolutely nothing there for the two of them to see that made them think it could have been a boy. Apparently at that stage (I was nearly 36wks) it is VERY obvious if its a boy.
In 3D we got glimpses and again nothing there and a very clear shot of the bum with nothing hanging out the back which is usually the case.
So although not certain I am still hoping its a girl.
The ladies did say they are not in the job to give you false hope if they are not sure they would rather just say but in this case they would be incrediably shocked and astounded if it turned out to be a boy.
They have never gotten it wrong as far as they know and certainly dont want me to be the one to break that record.
So while that doubt is there I am trying to think pink. I have neutralised the bedding and my hospital bag has neutral clothes with a few pink outfits in there too.
As much as I really want to fully believe I still have that protection mode in place. So thats where I am today, crossing everything I can and hoping like hell. Hopefully for not too much longer
WooHoo, I have everything crossed for you too and I have to say I am very interested to hear what name you have chosen with the rest of your kids names...they are great names by the way
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Oh Stacey. xo Wishing you comfort and peace as you work through this.
that they are right this time... thinking PINK for you, not long to go now...
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