Ahhh Beema, Flicker is definately giving you a workout before arrival. Putting you in our thoughts and wanting Flicker to have a good bake in your belly.
Thanks Kaz, think i need to have another talking to Flicker to just chill and grow and not cause anymore mischief

I hope your DH is opening up to you and keeps involving himself with whats happening, he really does need to be there for you. My DH was the opposite through the pgcy with V, he rarely talked about what was happening. I think I would have cracked if I didnt have you ladies here on BB. All the best with the visualisations hun, I truly hope that it makes a huge difference. hugs.
He is asking more, and understood better last night when I drew him a picture of how my uterus and bubs looked at the moment, so hopefully that helps, I am hoping he can come to the 20 weeks scan.

ahhh now i understand, thanks beema with regards to spinning babies thingy i remember one poster asking (persephone??) Chris Tang (the TCM guy) and he also mentioned the benefit of moxa sticks....you can do these at home, with the help of DH....just a thought.

i LOVE your idea of the visualisation thing for your cervix...if we can do it to help us through labour we can certainly do it to show it how to stay put! mebbe get your hands on a good relaxation/visualisation cd? (or itunes ). found it weird at first to do them, but as time goes on i am finding it pretty powerful stuff...

thinking of you guys and sending my love to you, flicker, your DH and Flick's big sister xx
Thanks Cassius on the info I will definitely ask Chris Tang some questions, I hadn't heard of Moxa Sticks and I am really interested, also, do you have any CD's you can recommend on relation/visualisation?

lol no worries hun......

sending u *lengthening vibes* for that cervix!!!!

hope DH can get his head around things and support u hun.......
im sure its a bit daunting for him, my DH struggles with the details of things sometimes....

if u need to chat im always on FB or feel free to PM me anytime.....


thinking of u....
Thanks Crumpet