Jay Jay,
My MIL still hasn't asked me how I am after losing our baby and I even saw her today. Its all just 'fluffy' talk with her, I think its because she doesn't know what to say to me. Maybe that is your SIL's issue too... she didn't want to be told bad news or make you sad so she pretended nothing was amiss. Just keep on smiling with the thought that your baby is thriving inside of you when you feel ignored and of course chat here.
take care, Curl
Yeah, suppose it is difficult for people to know what to say in threatened/actual miscarriage isn't it.
I remember trying to comfort my close friend after she m/c, and I was so nervous I found myself saying all sorts of things..........it seemed the more I tried to say the 'right' thing, so as not to upset her even more, I ended up saying all the 'wrong' things.
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