seeking help... you are so courageous (sp) to come on a forum and ask questions that were probably hard to ask not knowing how you would be recieved. i have been on and off drugs since age 9(i am currently 21) heroin, speed, pills pot whatever i could get my hands on and it is only recently that i have been clean of all of them and its only been at most a month since i relapsed... i too am desperately ttc...
congratulations on your pregnancy!!!
your gilfriend is so lucky to have someone like you to be there for her, especially someone who knows how it feels as you never truley understand if u havn't been through it.
although i don't have any advice for you guys i just wanted to say good on you for being clean and standing by your partner when she needs you the most!!! all the best for your pregnancy