I second the appointment with a LC, they are going to have far more idea about things that might help or that you might be able to try. Or even a call to the ABA hotline. FWIW BFing second time around is scary when the first time was hard work and a lot of pain, I hear ya! My left was my problem side and even during this pregnancy it certainly doesnt have as dark and deep veins as the right clearly does. Buuuut that said FWIW, I fed solely off one side for a very long time (2 months- over 12 months on one side) then reestablished in the left side to continue feeding from both sides. Try not to panic yet, the key to success is education and determination