Thanks everyone - it's great to be able to ask 'silly' questions and have so many great answers from people who have been there before me. I thought maybe i had something going a bit wrong with me

I told DH, and he thought it was a great joke - he hadn't noticed of course!! He likes knowing that i have people to ask my questions to, otherwise i'd be stewing away on my own!

I promise i won't shave/wax/pluck etc. I'm not a belly-out kinda girl anyway - especially not in Melbourne at this time of year!

but everyone else is too busy hiding their own blemishes and hairs or just admiring how great we look.
Thanks Ryn - sometimes it's good to remind ourselves how insignificant (or invisible) our flaws are to other people.