I didn't have any nesting urges with either of my DDs but with this baby it hit me in a huge way at about 18 weeks. EVERYTHING had to be organised throughout the entire house. Circumstances got in the way of a lot of it getting done but I made some progress. I had an argument with my DH on Tuesday morning about something really pathetically stupid (on my part) for the baby's room and the result was that I just crashed in a huge sobbing, stressed heap with all the same thoughts going through my head that you posted.

I think with me there is an enormous amount of anxiety mixed in. I'm still worried I won't bring this baby home and that she wasn't meant to be, and that is definitely making me stress. Mix that with unrealistic nesting urges and it doesn't make for a pretty sight.

I hope you're feeling a little more organised and under control soon. Try to take a step back and I'm sure you'll see its not as bad or as desperate as you feel it is (and yes, please. Take my advice - I'm sure not using it )