You know what? I didnt think I was going to be able to mange my first bub - and I survived. Remeber back before your first was born - did you doubt your ablitly to be a good mum? to cope with birth? with nappies? with sleepless nights? with tantrums? And your coping with all now that arent you? (yes good days / bad days!)

I think its perfectly natural to think we cant possibly do it all. Thats OK because we always find a way to do it. By the time your bubs is born your DD will be a few months older and you may just avoid cafe's and lunches for a while. Thats what I am thinking of doing.

I am sure others that have gone through it will come in and help us both with strategies. Thank goodness for other mums!

By the way WTF were all the other family at the table doing in letting you be the only one to jump up and down to your little one while growing another one too!! Thats not fair! I would have been over it too and left before the coffee.

Hope your DH comes home to just pamper you tonight!

Rachel