I think that you will cope more than you think.. especially since you do have so much support around you and like they say "never be too scared to say help.."
I've been in your boat. My son was around 4-5 months old when i fell preg with my 2nd and worse timing ever.. my MIL turned her back on us as my Sil who was 17 had only just past 6 weeks before i found out.. and i was only 17 myself..
i was sooooo scared that i actually started considering termination but thank god i wasn't taking it serious.. when he arrived i found that it would work out if you let things fall into place.. and my eldest was the worst sleeper you could meet.. and i mean literally slept for 3 hrs max till he was 15 mths old and then the 2nd one was the same..
i wasn't working but i understand your concerns but i think you have to give them the benefit of the doubt and maybe you could do some casual work till you're ready to stop again...
p.s i was on the pill when i fell preg with my 2nd ds and was taking it like clockwork everyday.. i am as fertile like a rabbit i'm a breeding machine lolmy dh just has to look at me and i get preg..!!
just look at the bright side they will be close and will be best friends and will adore each other
just take a step back and take a deep breath and smile cause your worried but you will end up loving the fact this has happened.. its all timing
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