opinions!

[ubba82]

i would definaty say something about the ex...deff would not want her there.....

and about the old bat ..next time you should say to dh gee she should be out shopping for coffins not clothes lol

Hehe, heavenly that is really funny!!

Brooke- I was 17when preg with DD and I once had this older lady ask me if the father was still involved. WTF?? Some people just have no tact. I agree with what the others have had to say regarding your MIL in the ex.

Hope you bought some nice things for YOUR baby at cotton on kids!

[Evie76]

I was going to say that the old bat should be shopping for Depend - what's she doing in that store?? Arrgggggg......... how rude.

I REALLY think you need to set the boundaries right now with your MIL. Inviting an ex to your baby shower is the stoopidest thing I have ever heard of in my life. Not only that, I just had my baby shower and had only one relative at it - my mother. Everyone else was friends - it was my choice who was there........ it's your choice who's at yours. Ridiculous.

I reckon if you don't start setting these boundaries now, you are going to have a hell of a time when the baby's born and later when you're married or having a wedding. Time to draw the line. It may hurt, but just remember - "Yes" is not something we always have to say. Learn to say "No" and stick behind it. You'll be very glad you did.