I still cant feel anything!!!!!!!! I hate being fat
It could be your placenta in the way, not because of your weight. I was around 70kgs when I fell pregnant with DD1 (so not overly fat - just chubby haha) and it still took till 22-24 weeks for me to be able to feel anything because my placenta was at the front.

My placenta is at the front this time round too.