Thank you all so much for your responses.

MySon- I had the same experience with a mat bra where it was okay in the shops but my boobs were all squishy after wearing it for a couple of hours. Im still looking fo r a bra to lift and separate!

Angelartstudent- I hate being fitted as well. I am 16E now and just feel embarrassed!

Gabi- I know this is a weird question but how do you know if you have blocked ducts? Do they feel like little/big lumps or like a bruise? Can you feel if they are blocked when you are pregnant or only after your baby comes along?

Tam- How did you get rid of the blocked duct? Im a bit clueless in this area.

Scooby- You poor thing! The cancer scare would have totally freaked me out as well. Glad that it wasnt cancer but it still sounded painful. Thanks for the tip on the HOtMilk bras.

Odette- i got a couple of those singlets and have been wearing them to bed at the moment so that I still have some support at night. They are quite good. I actually got a smaller size than I usually would (because I found the tighter it is the better the support without being too constrictive). Thanks for the tip!

BG- what happens if you order online and it doesnt quite fit right? Do they let you exchange or return?

You are all wonderful and so supportive! I swear my boobs weigh a few kilos each probably get even heavier when the milk comes!!