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thread: scared to wipe??

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    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2005
    Sydney
    2,121

    scared to wipe??

    Hi girls.



    Anyone scared to wipe aft going to the loo? I feel so relieved when i go and all i see is wee (TMI - sorry).

    Think im worrying too much.....

  2. #2
    Administrator
    Add Rouge on Facebook

    Jun 2003
    Ubiquity
    9,922

    I was exactly the same! And I daresay I will be next time until I know everything is ok. I think its a natural reaction. Its easy to say don't worry but its hard to do.

    I understand completely

    *hugs*
    Cailin

  3. #3
    Sal Guest

    Yes! I still have a moment of dread the first time I go to the toilet every day. And I have lower back cramps still, so I worry after I've had a cramp. I think my worry is starting to taper off a little (when I first got the lower back cramp, I was sure it was all over, but actually seeing no spotting or bleeding has reassured me that it must be normal).

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    BellyBelly Member

    May 2004
    Melbourne
    293

    I know what you mean! I am trying to get over my general feelings of concern... some symptoms would help!

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Life Member

    May 2004
    Geelong
    1,435

    Me me me!!! And still the same 8-[

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    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2005
    Mid North Coast NSW
    2,504

    yep - definately dreaded it for at least the first 14 weeks!!

    Linda

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    BellyBelly Member

    Aug 2004
    NZ
    2,554

    And the circle completes itself!!!! Now I'm getting scared to wipe again in case AF rears its ugly head again..... Have been getting some bloody mucus lately. Damn it!! I thought breastfeeding was supposed to keep it at bay for months!!

    Of course - by 38 weeks you'll be hoping to wipe and see some!

    Fi

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    Life Member

    May 2003
    Beautiful Adelaide!
    2,877

    Me too. Always. Through my entire pregnancy with Olivia and through this pregnancy I was always concious of wiping, and always looked, slightly filled with trepidation.

    I mentioned it to my SIL once (who is a nurse, so I expected her to think I was mad) and she said she was exactly the same through both of her two pregnancies as well..........

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    layla Guest

    Me too, and still doing it!!!! #-o
    Ahh, the joys of pregnancy!

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    Lee-Ann Guest

    I'm the same! I'm always checking. I'm hoping once I go for my 20 week scan I'll settle down a bit.

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    Wilson Guest

    Yep constantly checking

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    Ex adm!n, quietly rusting....

    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
    11,171

    I checked the entire way through as well 8-[

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    Administrator
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    Jun 2003
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    I was like you too Fi, scared of getting AF back LOL! But also now whilst TTC I am scared of wiping around AF time, so I wonder when I'll go back to not caring LOL!

    *hugs*
    Cailin

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    Melinda Guest

    I was a habitual toilet-paper checker too!!

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    BellyBelly Member

    May 2004
    1,451

    Yep me too and I will be again when I get pg again.

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    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2004
    Back in Brisvegas :)
    2,048

    Glad to know I'm certainly, most definately not the only one. This is still my number one fear and was certainly not helped by the fact that I did have the light bleeding around 9wks.

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    BellyBelly Member

    May 2005
    Canberra
    3,617

    glad i'm not alone.

    i have this irrational fear that if i push to hard when i poo, i will push the baby right out!

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    Sal Guest

    Misty, I have that fear too! So I spend AGES on the loo, rather than push hard and be done with it. It keeps me placated, can't ask for more than that 8-[

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