i won't:
berate myself for not exercising when I am tired
take my tiredness out on dh
eat as much choc
buy any unnecessary clothes or other baby bits
let my mother & m-i-l boss me about

I will:
always love my babies
take my fav pg supp elevit
eat healthy with less choc
try to swim
enjoy how nice and thoughtful stangers are when pg (as well as family)