Hi MAD2Be I too got a surprise BFP after deciding not to TTC. It scared the crap out of me too!! I'm sorry you're having a bad day with spotting. Brown blood is old blood so not always something to worry about. I had spotting, both brown and pink and red on and off around the time AF was due with this pg. Here's hoping everything works out the way you want It is such a stressful time with so many conflicting emotions