Ladies, I am having the same dilemmas.

DH just cant see me sexually at the moment. Truthfully I am not exactly an animal myself but I REALLY miss the intimacy of it. We are extremely affectionate toward each other & always have been. I am spoilt for cuddles & snuggles but I guess it adds to my self esteem issues & doubt to have such a dramatic halt to proceedings.

I am quite big & I thnk he sees me as a fragile/mummy being rather than a sex kitten.

I am just hoping that we will bounce back to normal once this all important transition takes place.