Most of our pregnancy positions have been mentioned. Another one is to throw a beanbag on the bed and to "hollow out" a space for your belly, and you can lie face-down in that while he penetrates you from behind.
Sex is not exciting during most of my pregnancy. Both of us, more me, is normally asking for it daily, doesn't mean i get it daily. But i normally want it all the time. As soon as i got bigger around 30 weeks, sex was uncomfortable and not interesting. I find being on top can be uncomfortable because of the weight so we spoon or me underneath but its hard with my belly. I like me on top on a chair because he sitting up rather then laying down i don't know but its better. I feel you have to make the most of it before birth because you can't for a while after. I think my DH has to make more of a effort with foreplay to get me more relaxed so it can be more enjoyable for both of us. Lube is always a big help too. But its just getting too weird now when you feel your pushing the baby's head out the way when your in the middle of it.
Last edited by Lozza; July 27th, 2008 at 05:02 PM.
I'm Lozza's DH. Our sex life has definitely changed since the baby has been there, but it's still there. Sure, some positions we can't do any more, purely because it's too uncomfortable for her. And for me, it feels a little weird when I can feel the baby's head inside when I'm inside.... It's a little off putting.
Now, it's either missionary with a pillow under her butt, or her on top. Neither last long though as it gets uncomfortable. So every time we have sex, I have to try and break my previous speed record so it doesn't hurt her. I've got it down to under a minute now, gonna see if I can better that time this arvo
And hey, there's nothing wrong with both being naked and close while she lets the fingers do the walking!
We have some additional problems to add to the big belly.
We are both overweight so have more 'flab' that gets in the way, plus DBF is a foot taller than me to doggy doesn't work too well for us. Damn IT!
Lately it's me on top, but I don't orgasim that way either, so we have quite a long foreplay before hand where DBF makes sure that I orgasim first (providing that's what I want which sometimes I just don't have the energy for). We have to use lots of lube too as I have been quite dry. Luckily bubs hasn't kicked me in the middle of it all yet to put us off. lol
It's not that exciting, but we both get pleasure and release and atm that's all we're focussing on.
Both of us can't wait for bubs to be born and for me to be healed and enjoy our sex life again.
Well i make my DP do his thing with help of some toys first which gets me off and then when im done we have sex, i hate missionary as i get paranoid hes gonna squash her so instead i kinda put my legs up over his shoulders and he does his thing. You can do this on the side of the bed if DP/H is tall/er cause it works better. Doggy is my fav but i cant do it lately cause it is really uncomfortable.
Anything is worth a try, i'd just experiment with lots of different positions.
For me, it's like the first time in my life where I have actually begged for it, and been refused!!
Didn't even get anything special (in the bedroom) for our second wedding anniversary! ... oh, sorry... I lied... he gave me a peck on the lips! aren't i lucky!
last time we went for it we started but then the little unit decided to start dancing - I just couldnt get kinky with her rolling around... so half an hour later we start again.
And it was actually great! Then as soon as we stopped she started dancing again. DF says it was her protest against the earthquake she just had to go through.......
Lol Alyssas Mum - we tried the side of the bed and there's still too much height diff. Maybe once I'm back to my normal flexibility things mught be different.
Only one more sleep til I'm induced so not too long to wait.
Oh yay Becci thats awesome, good luck and i hope everything goes well. Don't forget to post pics of bubs when your back at home and get the chance. lol
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