Thanks so much for your replies everyone. I've calmed down quite a bit now. I think I'm more inclined to trust my Ob rather than his partner, but I am going to take it a bit easier. The spotting has pretty much stopped now, which is a huge relief. I just can't handle being spoken to like I'm an idiot who's trying to kill her baby. The midwife was telling me today that no matter how many times they scan me, it won't change the outcome of the pregnancy - well no sh*t sherlock, I know that. There's a difference between being highly anxious and being stupid. Humph. I'm so often amazed at how badly doctors and midwives speak to their patients - we are paying their wages after all. Anyway, thanks for reading my vent.

HB
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