Hi Heather, we didnt find out with #1 DD because everything was so new and all so why not have a surprise. #2 DS, i found out even though DH didnt want to know, i had my suspicions he was a he anyway, but it got the better of him and i eventually told him. He was glad that he new that we had a son coming, also we could organise things like names, which we named him at like 7 weeks pg, and boys clothes. I had plenty of time to go through DD stuff to see what would be boy material.
With the next though, if it happens, we wont be finding out. And this is purely because we are blessed to have one of each all ready so i dont need to plan, i cant just enjoy the surprise again.
No i dont regret not finding out with #1 and i dont regret finding out with #2.