Thanks for all your support guys... I feel better now. I totally get why people want to keep it a surprise.. and that's great... I would never react or push my view on anyone and I guess I just expect the same back.

Oh and the name thing... man no one should say anything about the name you have chosen... that is cruel too! I wont be telling anyone my names until the baby is in my arms! They wont be able to try and get me to 'change my mind' when its done on on the birth certificate!!!

damn stupid people!

love to you all! x