I'm not sure about treatment for this but I can completely sympathise with you on this one!!! First time around I hated being naked around DH as I felt more masculine than him LOL!!! (he's got the rove mcmanus face - patchy growth ) Particularly my belly - and dark hairs....ugh!!! Thankfully, it all calmed down after a few weeks post birth and went completely back to normal "phew"!

Maybe someone can help you with a stop gap treatment but am sending you hugs!!