Lea,

XP and I are currently friends and working on a reconciliation (but not getting my hopes up) however I have been on my own in part since 10w and completely since 14w pregnant.

As Jennifer13 said pg hormones play havoc on any relationship, but especailly a bumpy one will suffer.

It is hard doing it alone but you can do it. I have a great family who have been very supportive and my XP has been pulling out the stops to help me where he can (and try to win me back). I have a few health issues and my X has been coming over once a week to do housework and stuff for me for about a month.

I have a huge post in the Relationships thread about the whole drama if you are interested, its called "My Own Personal Soapie". I started it as a a form of therapy because I had so much stuff I just needed to vent and it really helped me deal with a lot of things.

Please ask me anything you want and if you need to chat one on one I will pm you my email. If you are not a platinum member you wont be able to email me back but please feel free to email.

Wishing you all the best for whatever outcome you have with your relationship and know that the girls here are the most amazing support you could have, they have kept me sane and intact as a person when at times I have just been ready to crumble.

Good luck for a healthy, happy and safe pregnancy.