We were the first in our circle of friends to have a baby so I know how tough it can be & I definately don't think you're being selfish at all.

We were the same as Lucy & her DH, Aaron would go out on Friday nights & I'd spend the night with my family, then we'd spend the weekend together.

We had alot of people over as well, that way, they had to smoke outside not near me & I still go to socialise. We even had a NYE party last year, which was great. The other good thing about being at home is you can go to bed when you get tired & no-one minds!

We had movie nights as well, inviting people over to watch movies with us.