hi girls and thanks for your replies,

i felt a bit better after reading all your suggestions on things we could do. the funny thing is, i don't mind a quiet friday night to myself with a good dvd either. actually, i did stay home with a dvd on friday and even though we live with his parents, i didn't mind one bit because i assumed we'd have saturday night to spend together. but he'd made plans for that night as well!

but anyway... i don't want to bad mouth my DH.. cause he really is a great guy and has been wonderful and supportive (just not most weekends) throughout the pregnancy. and i know it's not his fault that the boys don't care if i'm healthy or not. i just feel like he should make more of an effort.. but he'd rather just do his thing with the boys... and when it comes to time spent with me... oh we'll just stay home with a dvd.. and then on sunday, DH's brother has been renovating his house for the past 5 months so there goes our sundays too

i told him i'd go nuts if i have to spend the next 6 months at home.. plus during the time bubs is too fragile to be taken outside. all your suggestions seem like such easy solutions, why didn't i think of them? thank you girls.. you have certainly helped shed light on this subject