errrgh i had the same thing happen to me my dp took the day off work which is loss in income to come with me to be told no and to go home i went and saw my gp straight after and sorted it out but i was upset only just got my first scan on wensday at 20 weeks these places dont understand that sometimes we want both parents there to see bub and well a little tact would be nice not everyone rembers to bringa referal and wats a 20 min wait to run back and get that form

hope it all goes well for u on monday