Mrs. Matthews,

If you are bleeding because you are miscarrying, you will definitely know. I had red blood (small amounts) and then it REALLY started. Way worse than any period I've ever had, mostly because you're passing the lining of the uterus which has thickened due to the introduction of a fetus.

I was cramping so badly that I felt it up my spine and couldn't bare to sit on the toilet to poo.

You have seen the baby. You know one is there. If you start to get really concerned you need to see your doctor. You sound concerned to me, so the doc needs to make time to see you again.